Oh, gads, I've had that happen to me more than once!  I run groups myself, and I preach the old saw "respond to the issue, not the poster" like I'm in my right mind or something.  This style board undermines that considerably.

Faeriewylde is a php board, and it's beautiful:  Simple, neat, easy to use, supports HTML and all that.  You can get more info on php here -->  http://www.phpbb.com/  

I figure that the answers will be similar frequently, but just the fact that the posts are being made would likely improve morale around here considerably.  :D  Just "Hi!  We're breathing!"  

I'd post over in suggestions, but one of the owners posted here, so I'm hanging onto that.  XD